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Tina and I met at work in 1996.
We were young, dumb… and very comfortable with drinks poured heavy.
Three weeks later, we were standing in Las Vegas at the Little White Wedding Chapel getting married—officiated by a gay Elvis.
Yes—three weeks.
Yes—Elvis.
There was no plan. No roadmap.
And absolutely no illusion that we had anything figured out.
Just two people making a wildly questionable decision…
…and somehow getting it exactly right.
The beginning to our motto of Loving Life Having Fun
(This is our actual, official, wedding picture - Polaroid)

Almost 30 years later, we’re still doing what we’ve always done — choosing experiences over excuses and laughter over perfection.
Life has changed, evolved, and thrown more than a few curveballs our way, but the heart of it all remains the same. We love the journey, embrace the detours, and believe the best stories usually come from plans that didn’t quite stick.
What started as a leap of faith has turned into a lifetime of memories — and we’re still adding chapters, one adventure at a time. Something that we call Loving life and having fun

These 2 goofballs (also known as Thing 1 & Thing 2) go everywhere with us. Reecee has been camping since we brought her home from the pound when she was 6 weeks old. Zero was just a wee bit older, but another pound puppy camping with us since he was 6 months old



Camping has always been part of our DNA — just in very different (and slightly questionable) ways. Joe grew up camping through Scouts, picking up a mix of useful survival skills and a solid belief that you should always be prepared, but also that most problems could be solved by winging it with confidence. He learned essential camping tips like how to start a fire, tie a knot, and debate at length with a compass that was absolutely certain north was somewhere else. Tina discovered camping later in life and immediately fell in love with the freedom it offered — fresh air, wide-open spaces, and the undeniable joy of realizing there were no adults present. Camping meant late nights, questionable decisions, and memories that survived mostly intact. Somewhere between Joe’s “this should probably work” approach and Tina’s enthusiastic “we’ll laugh about this later” mindset, we found our camping groove. Together, we learned that real camping success isn’t about having the best gear or a perfectly planned trip, especially when exploring RV campgrounds. It’s about the stories that come from things going sideways, the glow of a campfire at the end of the day, and laughing — usually at ourselves — when the plan quietly turns into the adventure, which is something we often share on our travel blog.
As we started our journey into adulthood, we didn't have much money, which meant we were dead broke! Looking back, we realized that between us we owned a ratty old tent, a green Coleman camp stove, and a few folding camp chairs and tables. We couldn't do much back then, but we could go camping. And camping we did! We gathered some essential camping tips and would drive up to the Mogollon Rim @8,000' (Fire In The Sky), eventually packing 3 kids, 2 dogs, and all of our camping gear into our tiny little cars to embark on our adventures. Whether it was hot or cold, rain or shine, we made the most of our trips, often dreaming of the RV campgrounds we would one day visit as we explored the great outdoors.

We loved camping—but we were done sleeping on the ground and pretending that was part of the fun.
And when it rained—which it always seemed to—we got the full experience…
a gentle waterfall from the tent ceiling, paired nicely with a slow-moving river across the floor.
That was about the point we decided… maybe it was time for an upgrade.
We wanted a roof. Something that resembled a bed—even if it was basically an inch of questionable, 10-year-old foam sitting on particle board. And a table that didn’t fold mid-game. The little things.
So, like just about everyone in the Phoenix area at the time, we made the trip to Little Dealer Little Prices and bought our first RV—a very well-used Coleman pop-up.
Five of us. Three kids. Two dogs. All somehow packed inside.
Tina and I? We scored “privacy”… courtesy of a dinky little curtain.
It wasn’t fancy. It wasn’t much. But at the time? We thought we had arrived.
The Taj Mahal on wheels.
(“That there is an RV, Clark.” 😄)

Somehow, somewhere, sometime… we became adults.
Work-life balance? Yeah… that quietly turned into work-work balance.
12-hour days. 80-hour weeks.
And somehow… still never caught up.
Jobs turned into careers. Careers turned into responsibility. Weekends & evenings? Gone.
Replaced with homework, sports ball, teacher conferences, permission slips… and a calendar that stayed full no matter how hard we tried to get ahead of it.
The money was great. Better than we ever imagined back in those pop-up days.
But our time? Gone.
Somewhere along the way…we started trading vacation days for 401k’s.
And at the time, that felt like the right move. Camping and traveling slowly faded into the background.
Replaced with deadlines, meetings, and “just one more thing” before calling it a night.
We told ourselves we didn’t have time to camp. And eventually… we believed it.
The pop-up sat in the garage. Trips we talked about never happened.
So we sold it to some good friends—telling ourselves it was the practical thing to do.
At the time, it felt like we were doing everything right.
Building careers. Providing for the family. Checking all the boxes.
And to be fair… we were. But somewhere along the way…
we traded in what made us happy for what we thought we were supposed to do.
And we didn’t even realize it was happening.

The kids had grown—mostly. One had graduated high school. The other two weren’t far behind.
And then one day… that meeting.
“There’s been a restructure… your position has been eliminated.”
Absolutely terrifying. Until it wasn’t.
That fear didn’t last long—because right behind it came something we hadn’t felt in a long time…Freedom.
One of the first things we did?
We took a real family vacation—the first one in over a decade. No schedules. No deadlines. No “just one more thing.”
When we got home, reality knocked again—but this time it felt different.
I started looking at the job market and realized something simple:
I was looking for a job when I found the last one… and the one before that.
The resume was solid. Opportunities were there.
It felt like this might not be a setback…it might be a reset.
Once things settled, another thought crept back in—one we hadn’t given much attention to in years:
Camping.
Not the idea of it. Not the memory of it. The real thing.
So we did what any reasonable people would do…
We went hunting on Facebook Marketplace (maybe Craigslist—we honestly don’t remember), and before long, another Coleman pop-up was hitched behind the SUV.
PUP 2.0.
Smaller than the first one. Tina and I had a bed. The dogs had a bed.
The kids? Well… they inherited the old tent and sleeping bags still sitting in the garage.
To be fair, they weren’t really “kids” anymore. They were young adults now—and camping with Mom and Dad wasn’t exactly high on their priority list.
But for us? It was. And just like that…we were back.

Somewhere along the way… this stopped being about getting back into camping.
It started becoming something we actually wanted to build into our lives.
Not an escape. Not a once-a-year trip. Not just for the weekends.
I was earning well again—but this time, without chasing titles or burning 80-hour weeks to get there. 40 hours a week (for now). A job I actually liked. That alone changed everything.
So we started looking. Not casually. Not impulsively.
We looked for months.
And eventually, we found it—the Starcraft Starstream.
This wasn’t a pop-up. This wasn’t “make it work.” This felt like a real step forward.
Hard walls, aluminum body panels, actual automotive paint.
Windows made of glass. Not plastic flaps that zipped, snapped… and leaked.
Running water. A bathroom—honestly bigger than our first apartment—complete with a shower and a flushing toilet.
A fridge. A microwave. And yes… a 19-inch TV/DVD combo that felt way more impressive than it had any right to be. It wasn’t about impressing anyone. But it did feel like we had stepped into something new.
More comfort. More ease.
More time actually enjoying where we were… instead of working around the experience.
And for the first time in a long time…Camping didn’t feel like something we were trying to squeeze back in. It felt like something we were finally making room for.





It was time for a new tow vehicle. The old Jeep Grand Cherokee had served us well—and honestly, it still does. These days it lives a much easier life… grocery runs instead of mule pulling a trailer.
But over the years, we learned something:
Besides not knowing what we didn’t know…our biggest limiting factor in what RV we could pull was always the tow vehicle.
And we had outgrown it. With life on track and RV life becoming… well… a real thing, it was time to step up. No more SUV. It was time for our first truck. And not just any truck…
We went straight to the big boy truck. And with the truck… came options. Dangerous options. Because once you can tow more… you will tow more.
Enter: the Arctic Fox 28F.
Thirty feet. Twelve thousand pounds. Roughly 250 square feet of living space.
A tiny apartment on wheels.
And compared to where we started? This thing was an absolute beast.
Dual slides. Reclining theater seats facing a 32-inch TV.
A real bedroom. With a real queen bed.
At some point, we stopped asking “is this camping?”
…and started wondering if we’d accidentally moved into a house with wheels.
(“That there IS an RV, Clark.” 😄)
We even had a family theme song—
“Foxy, Foxy, Foxy”—sung in a cha-cha rhythm as we stumbled around the campground.
Strangers definitely looked at us funny.
We owned Foxy for five years. The first few? Still camping. But the last two?
That’s when things shifted.
About 30% of the year on the road.
Longer trips. More time away. Less “getting away”… and more just living.
Cool in the summer. Warm in the winter. This wasn’t camping anymore.
This was RV life. And honestly?
It was almost perfect.
(Almost… but we’ll get to that next.)







Foxy was the perfect camping trailer.
But somewhere along the way…we had evolved beyond camping.
Tina held steady at 40 hours a week.
Me? I somehow found my way right back into the 60+ hour zone.
And now… we weren’t just traveling. We were working.
Full setups. Starlink fired up. Two workstations. Monitors, laptops, keyboards… cables everywhere. Two adults. Two dogs. One very confined space.
We were already on the road 30%+ of the year—and pushing hard toward 50–60%.
This… wasn’t going to work.
We learned quickly our “happily married” shelf life had limits:
Two weeks? Great. Three weeks? Getting a little tense.
Four weeks? Hard stop. 😄
So we went shopping again.
But this time… it wasn’t about going bigger. It was about going smarter.
We needed space that worked.
A layout that could handle two full workstations.
A setup that allowed us to travel, work… and still actually enjoy it.
You know…
Loving Life Having Fun.
Enter a new name for us—Brinkley RV.
And with it, a new floorplan: the Z3400.
Just under 39 feet. 17,000 pounds. Three slide rooms.
And suddenly… space.
Not one. Not two. But up to four potential work areas.
Three 55-inch HDTVs—because apparently we had crossed into a different tax bracket of decision-making.
A full residential fridge. A king bed - Upstairs.
Roughly 400 square feet inside…
plus another 49 square feet of party patio.
At this point…we weren’t camping. We weren’t even RVing.
We had accidentally created a traveling condo… with a deck… and questionable decision-making skills.
And somehow—it all made perfect sense.
In our first 18 months alone, we logged over 10,000 miles in the Brinkley.
And remember that big boy truck we bought for Foxy?
Yeah… not even close to being up to this task
So naturally… we upgraded again.
A Chevy 1-ton High Country.
Because… it’s only money.
And just like that…
you’re all caught up.
(For now.) 😄
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